Different Paths

When I find myself saying what I should or shouldn’t do it usually has more to do with other people’s values or beliefs than it does with my own. I’m hearing the voice of those around me or society at large. It is actually quite arrogant to presume to know what another person should do or how they should do it.  I am not that person and they are not me. Succumbing to the pressure of doing what “should” be done contaminates peace and joy.  Unrest reveals the inappropriateness of the step – presenting the opportunity to return to trust in the sovereignty and individuality of Christ in me.

People in the same environment often take steps contrary to those of another; and the differing actions will render the same outcomes in each.  A common goal will be reached having arrived from opposite directions. As one goes left and another goes right, they arrive at the same place at the same time.  One navigates an arduous uphill climb while the other travels through dank and darkened valleys.  Either way, it is the correct path for each.  The destination, after all, is not a location; the destination is the emergence of character.  How can we possibly think we know what will effect change in another -  or even presume to know what change is needed?

Work out (cultivate, carry out to the goal, and fully complete) your own salvation with reverence and awe and trembling (self-distrust, with serious caution, tenderness of conscience, watchfulness against temptation, timidly shrinking from whatever might offend God and discredit the name of Christ.)  [Not in your own strength] for it is God Who is all the while effectually at work in you [energizing and creating in you the power and desire], both to will and to work for His good satisfaction, and delight.  Philippians 2:12-13 (AMP)